I lost my mom back in June of 2005 to Breast Cancer, It totally destroyed me!! That Christmas Eve I was laying on the couch everyone else was sleeping, I guess I dozes off, cause the next think I knew I woke up tp the bell on my Christmas Tree ringing!! I know it was my mom!! I always said, My Mom got her wings that night!! :-)) Several things have happened!! Orbs in pictures, I have a pinwheel in a plant in the kitchen and sometimes when I talk to her or if I am upset and crying, the pinwheel will twirl!! ;-))

Yes!! My son died of cancer, he was 23. Two days after he died I was sitting at my computer looking at pictures of him and feeling like my heart was going to burst and suddenly I felt his presence and I even felt him hug me. He is around alot - sometimes it is very obvious and sometimes I am just aware that he might be checking in on us. He came to a massage therapist while she was working on me and said things that only I would know. (she didnt know me at all). He told her "you didnt need to hang my Christmas Stocking." I laughed and cried at the same time because he would think that was silly, but it was our first Christmas without him - I will always hang it now just to tease him. So yes, these are great gifts that we are able to receive. I have to lean on those things heavily when my days are bad and I feel like I cant go on.

Your stories are all so awesome!
After i found out my neice had passed away, and then my unborn child, I would sit here on the computer and the window next to me would always be open, a bird came to the window and started chirping :) It came back to the same window about 6 times that day. I know it was both of my angels saying hi! Every now and then a bird comes back to the window sits there and chirps until i look then it will fly away :) Some people would say it was just a bird outside, but i know and believe it was my 2 guardian angels coming to say hi!

We smell Old Spice aftershave and cigar smoke in the house. Dad used both. I have seen a denim-clad figure out of the corner of my eye. But my fiance(who was in a coma for six months before I met him) has seen and heard more that I have. He has had doors open and close, and has had dreams in which my Dad spoke to him.

Woke up tonight wondering what direction Cara was facing when the car hit her. Wondering if she was feeling so sad that she stepped out in front of the car on purpose. I was distraught and got up to try to wake up and get that out of my head but couldn't so I started writing about it for my God Box... I had only written a couple of words before suddenly Cara was inside my head saying, "I did not commit suicide." I wondered if it was me wanting to hear that and Cara just kept repeating herself, and then I could see her image and I held her and I told her I loved her and I missed her and she told me she loved me. I told her I was so sad and I asked her if she missed us and was sad and she told me she couldn't say that she did or was because she was in heaven and its a wonderful place. Am I telling myself these things. I don't think so. You would have to be inside my head like Cara is to see how insistent she gets when I question what I'm hearing and seeing.

If this post upsets you I'm sorry. I honestly hope it will help. I don't believe that because I can see and hear Cara that we were closer or loved each other more. Sometimes people get lucky and I feel like that's what is happening to me. My reason for sending you this message is because I do believe our children are in a better place. As sad as it could make me for Cara to say she doesn't miss us and isn't sad I'm glad that her pain and sorrow are over.

yes...hugs

My Grandma has not come to me in "person" but definetly in dreams. When she first died, I had scary dreams where she was sick and dying. In one of these dreams, she was sick but still able to talk. She said to when she dies not to hold on to her wings. I talked to my mom about it and she said that is was the way for my Grandma to tell me to let her go so that she could go to Heaven. It is just really hard to be without her. It is not the same.

I lost my Husband in July 2005, and about a month after he passed away, I saw him in our house standing in the foyer just as plain as day...and he smiled at me. Then once I was at my husbands cross, and out of no where a man (who I've never seen in my life) asked me if this was where I lost a loved one, and I said yes, my Husband and began to cry. Then he asked me, "You also lost your father recently?" And I said yes, in January 2005, and he smiled at me and said, "They are both okay now" and I put my head down for just a moment and looked back up and he was gone. I looked every where around, and there was no trace of him. I feel in my heart and soul it was an Angel sent from God above to let me know...they are okay now.

I have mentioned a couple things on this subject in other posts, but the short answer is YES.

My loved ones do reach me from beyond. My mom a lot. My dad once in a blue moon. He's been gone since 1996 and she just passed last August.

You're not crazy, these things are happening, they are not to be afraid of. It's just love and miracles.

hugs,
Becky