Bereavement - Teens Support Group
This community is focused on teens who have lost someone close to them. Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, and while most people focus on the emotional response to loss, it can affect us behaviorally, physically, and even spiritually. This is a safe place to talk about how you're feeling and coping with grief, and to share experiences that have helped you through.
-Two years ago I lost my girlfriend
- We had been dating for a year and 9 months
- Our relationship was a secret from everyone because she was a lesbian and I a bisexual in a catholic school
- Four days before her unexpected death we had already started to make plans to be together after graduating highschool later that school year
- She was my best friend
- Her family still hasn't told me the exact cause of her death although i do know that she was very sick at the time.
- I'm still not out of the closet cause i wanted her by my side to do that but i'm working on it
- But i'm finding it a hard battle because i don't want to loose anyone else it has also been a battle moving forward in life without her
It would be really nice if i could get some advice or encouragement
- We had been dating for a year and 9 months
- Our relationship was a secret from everyone because she was a lesbian and I a bisexual in a catholic school
- Four days before her unexpected death we had already started to make plans to be together after graduating highschool later that school year
- She was my best friend
- Her family still hasn't told me the exact cause of her death although i do know that she was very sick at the time.
- I'm still not out of the closet cause i wanted her by my side to do that but i'm working on it
- But i'm finding it a hard battle because i don't want to loose anyone else it has also been a battle moving forward in life without her
It would be really nice if i could get some advice or encouragement
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Well so since nobody has posted anything i will. It sucks having to move on. But you can always no that she is on your side and will always be by your side. It sucks that after two years we still havent moved on but really its a process and we may never move on if we dont want to. Lifes hard but we have to find a way. Moving on doesnt mean saying good bye its just sayoing were ready to. Have our lives back just a lilttle but it is never the same with the perosn we love the most past. I hope this helps justs a little andif you want you can message me at anytime. Keep you head up and know i am here for you.
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i understand where ur comin from cuz i lost my great grandma 2 days before easter in 2008 and i lost my uncle on 2-14-2008 how i dealt with it was i prayed and talk to ppl bout it.. but u cant jsut dewellon it cuz they wouldnt want u to do something bad just because they are gonna and at less u have them in ur heart. take care wendalynn
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