Bedwetting Support Group
Bedwetting (or nocturnal enuresis or sleepwetting) is involuntary urination while asleep. It is the normal state of affairs in infancy, but can be a source of embarrassment when it persists into school age or the teen or adult years. Find others who are coping with a bedwetting problem and share your experiences and questions.
I was setting my alarm on my phone for every 20 minutes at night to go pee so I woudn't have an accident and it worked. But my parents heard me going to the bathroom and took away my phone at night because they said I wont sleep good. So there's no way for me to wake up until they wake me in the morning. And that's really embarrassing because I woke up to my mom checking if I was wet. They treat me like a baby.
It doesn’t sound like your mother is willing to change her methods.
Giving her anymore grief about this may backfire. She’s clearly conflicted. She’s can either deprive you of your sleep or keep your bottom diapered
Your mother knows how embarressing it is for you to wet yourself. I suspect this is why she is still conducting diaper checks. It’d be easier for you to keep it to yourself and throw out your soiled pampers - but then how would she know if your problem was actually improving?
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My advice for you would be to get past the embarressment as best you can. Find others in your life or online who can empathize with your situation. Put all your efforts towards staying dry.
At the end of the day, your mother is paying for the diapers, and you are her son. You should respect her rules while still voicing your concerns.