Bedwetting Support Group
Bedwetting (or nocturnal enuresis or sleepwetting) is involuntary urination while asleep. It is the normal state of affairs in infancy, but can be a source of embarrassment when it persists into school age or the teen or adult years. Find others who are coping with a bedwetting problem and share your experiences and questions.
Hi - I was wondering if I could get some help and ideas here. We have a five year old daughter (she turns six this month). She still wets the bed, which isn't a big deal, but she's been leaking out of her goodnites about half the time for the last month and I'm getting fed up with the extra laundry. Based on some posts here it looks like some parents use diapers. I'm not sure how well that suggestion would go over - it was a big deal for her when we switched from diapers to pull-ups at night when she was potty trained, and again when we switched to goodnites because they're for "big kids." We might be able to convince her to give it a try, but are the any other ideas people have?
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I've just been updating my profile information because I had a birthday last week, and so I'm now 25 instead of 24. It doesn't feel any different though!Just so you all know a bit about me: I suffer with anxiety and occasional panic attacks, and sometimes I do an accidental wee in bed while I'm asleep. Now I'm a year older than this time last week I can report that nothing has changed, although...
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In 2013 I had an accident resulting in spinal injury at the base of my neck with paralysis from there down, spasticity (muscle contractions and spasms) and double incontinence. Both my anus and my urethra have been left closed except with manual intervention. I hardly ever pass urine via the usual route (I have a suprapubic catheter passing directly into my bladder about 2 inches below my...

Sit down with your daughter and explain the readons why your going back. Be as sympathetic as you can with her if shes opposed to the idea. Work with her on setting some ground rules and structure regarding ongoing back to diapers, compromise where you can. Also give her a final goal to work towards so she knows theres an end at some point.
Good luck!! And I hope it all works out for both you and her.
Good luck ! Please give us an update.
I have some that are soft and fleecy on top but waterproof underneath, if you have more than one you can switch them out for a dry one in the morning if need be.
Way easier than sheets, just wash them. Mine are from Target and pretty big so they don't move, like 30x60.
She just had her six year old checkup and the doctor isn't worried yet since she's never been dry at night. He did say he'd be more concerned if she had stopped wetting for several months then started again, but that's the case with us.
The inserts idea is a good one - I will try to order some.
LynieMarie - If we do try diapers setting a goal is a good idea. We should probably do that anyway. How long did it take to convince them to try the diapers?
Thanks for all the ideas!
Convincing our daughters to give up on the pull ups for diapers was not easy at all. Lots and lots of power struggles, tempertantrum, whining and complaining. We gave them no choice once really and just stuck with that once we discovered diapers were much more successful than pull ups were. I did use all converasations pointing out that leaking pee all over was just gross and disgusting and that they really different that. They'd feel much better with dry sheets and bedding and no more icky wet spots. They'd also feel better not having smelly beds and be less embarrassed with clean smelling beds. I use a corn starch baby powder in their diapers to help hide any foul odors. Even now Ava has it added to her pull ups now that's she's out of diapers.
I hope that helps give you some ideas to try with your daughter.
Booster pads like someone else mentioned are also worth a try, although they didn't work for us.
I mentioned booster pads but they work better with diapers.
Is there something obvious I'm missing to make the insert more comfortable and/or work better? We're going to try them a few more nights.
Are there any leak guards on her godnite?
I’m thinking you’ll have to buy her plastic pants to solve this problem.
SpongeBob - she is a heave wetter, and yes, there are leak guards on the goodnites.
I'll look for some plastic pants - looks like there are lots of choices there I almost don't know where to start looking.
To the people who have used diapers - how did that go? She still fits in toddler pull-ups, so I imagine the largest size baby diapers will fit her. I'm pretty sure she's not going to like that idea.
Thanks.
She may not like the idea but she will like to wake up in dry sheets.
I would imagine regular diapers would fit her fine. My youngest son, 3, is in regular diapers and my oldest is in youth diapers. But on the occasion we run out of youth diapers my oldest can squeeze into his brothers diaper. He is much older than your daughter.