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Hi I started bedwetting in December I hope it stops for you to soon

You may not. I never have stopped but until I fully accepted it, got over the diaper stigma, and found out it was a medical certainty I would wet my bed and struggle during the day as well, was I able to move forward. I don’t broadcast I’m in diapers 24/7 but I don’t hide from it either. I share my condition with anyone I am going to room with or share a locker room with. I’ve told maybe 20 or so people and have never gotten a negative reaction from.

Happens to some of us. Testing in my early thirties showed I have a neurogenic bladder which basically meant, as the dr. put it, my bladder reacts more or less like a babies in that the brain connections are faulty. Too bad I didn’t know this going through my teenage years beating myself up for wetting every night. Stayed in diapers by my mom until I entered high school then put myself back in my thick cloth diapers with plastic pants shortly after that. Diapers were much better than a nightly flooded bed. Struggled during the day also and always stayed in dark pants to cover small accidents trying to get to the bathroom. Always wore thick training type underwear or 2-3 pairs of underwear.
Of course once I found out about my condition I went to quality disposables during the day. My stress level was now the lowest of my life. Never worrying again about wetting again. Management was sort of inconvenient initially but now after so many years it’s just what I do. Very thankful they’ve developed good disposables for daytime use. At night the only good alternative remains thick cloth with plastic pants.

When my bed wetting returned in my 50's my wife was very gentle about her approach being the male ego was hurt.

Years ago When I discovered the health related issue for my incontinence I totally accepted it. Too bad I didn’t know earlier in life because I spent forever beating myself up about having to control myself with diapers. I no longer even think about it. Knowing when I have to change during the day to avoid leaks is important. At night thick pin on diapers with good fitting plastic pants usually keep the bed dry with only minor leaks a couple nights a week. Wetting multiple times a night is sometimes just too much.