Sorry to hear what you've been through. It's actually not at all unusual for bedwetting to crop up in response to particularly difficult or traumatic times in life -- especially if you have a history of it from when you are younger. Your body responds to the emotional stress by "falling back" into old patterns. It does NOT mean you are a baby though! Don't think of the protection you wear to bed as a "nappy" -- it's not something for a baby, it's just something to protect your bed from getting wet in case of a bladder malfunction, which lots of healthy, well-adjusted adults have to one degree or another through no fault of their own. Keep your head up -- and you may even find that once life starts to settle back down for you, your bladder will too! Either way, though, you're great just the way you are -- don't let anyone tell you differently!

Thank you Adam77 for your kind words. I will try not to think of my protection as a Nappy, but as I am wet every morning it is hard to think of it not as a Nappy and fell like a Baby in my Nappy.

I was a bedwettwer in younger years, now Im 37 but when my wife moved out and filed for divorce I also began wetting the bed again. I think it is the stress. Just know that you are not alone.

I ment to say before,

I have been to the hospital and have been diagnosed with a irritable bladder. I am on tablets "Tolterodine 4mg".

I see my docter on Thursday and the hospital consultant next month.

I have today been to the hospital for a urodynamics test. Its official I do have a iritable/overactive bladder.