Atrial Fibrillation (AFib) Support Group
Atrial fibrillation (AF or afib) is an abnormal heart rhythm (cardiac arrhythmia) which involves the two small, upper heart chambers (the atria). Heart beats in a normal heart begin after electricity generated in the atria by the sinoatrial node spread through the heart and cause contraction of the heart muscle and pumping of blood.

I know how your husband feels. I was 36 when I was first diagnosed with it, and yeah, it just makes you feel great when people tell you how young you are to have that condition. I read some of the posts and I didn't realize that if you don't get the ablation early in your disease that it won't be effective. I'm going to have to talk to my EP about this. What a bummer. I hope your husband finds a good EP and has great success with his ablation (if he decides to go forward with it). If he has success, please let me know which EP he went to!
I had an ablation in Nov. 2009 and am still good (tho I occasionally have brief period of arrthymia). My EP even said that he thinks the ablation worked will and the occasional blip returns to normal because of the ablation.
He also is in favor of cardioversion, less intense, may work in husband's case. Ask about it.
Although the procedure was intense (8 hrs in my case) it was really fine, and I felt pretty good and back to work in 3 days.
You can look up my current doc. by googling Florida Heart Group Orlando then searching for Dr. George Monir under 'our staff". The guy is great and I have complete faith (not my strong point).
Good luck to you both.
Michael