Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...


Mindfulness can include practicing the art of meditation exercises designed to find your way to a “safe” place of inner piece and calming self-reflection and acceptance. It can also include the practice of cognitive behavioral activities which use methods, such as self-talk, to help you better perceive the reality of a troubling situation and refrain from reacting in ways that cause excessive obsessing and anxiety over something that you just can’t “fix.”
For me, Self-talk works better when I do it aloud – I NEED to actually hear myself say, “STOP IT!” (as djChurn commented, previously), and I NEED to actually hear myself describing an event for what it is so that I can admit honestly how it affects me, using my reasoning skills to determine how I ought to perceive the event and how I ought to act or react. (Of course, I have to use more inventive ways to self-talk when I happen to be around other people, or I might just freak out those around me! A light attempt at levity, as we could all use a little humor each day in our lives, too.)
Peace!
I carry cold water with me and place it in the crook of my neck over the jugular or carotid artery...that gets my attention fast. Taking a drink of the cold water helps too, holding it in your mouth and noticing the cold.
Then also I pick up a stone/textured object to carry in a pocket (purse)and rub feeling the surface and using the tempo to slow my breathing (there are worry stone, but they are too smooth for my needs).
Breathing techniques are great but remember to use belly breathing and not just chest breathing. When we sleep that's the way our bodies breath, and this sends a signal to our brain to relax. When chest breathing we tend to tighten our lateral dorsi muscles, which may or may not help in a given situation
All of these beat sinking my nails into the plaster and crawling up the wall like Spiderman even though I am not that sleek...but even visualizing that helps me to smile, sending another good vibe to my brain.
Support J.