Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

Even though you might struggle with taking about your problems, try to do it anyway. It can be life changing, even if it’s just on this site.
I wish you all the best and happiness!
My own anxiety management benefits mightily from a broader support base. It takes a village to live a healthy life. Broader support equals broader perspective.
Listening. . .
Panic, for me, like Arfie, is anxiety in full surround lights, motion, and action.
For your husband to find a calm with his upcoming return to the workplace, look at the positives - post them on the refrigerator. Same for you.
Take time to help you relax and unwind. Venting is healthy in a safe place.