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Pork chops actually are safer than they used to be and some people serve a pork roast that's still pink and it's okay to eat as long as the internal temperature gets hot enough.
With the spatula it was likely immersed enough in the heat of the pan that you're okay. If she had the raw meat on a plate and then put the cooked meat on it, you could have an issue.
Additionally, when I cook, I keep the spatula on the pan while cooking, but after I'm done I may set it where the raw meat was so your mom may not have even had it there while she was cooking.
You also wouldn't die even if you ate a raw porkchop (not that I'd recommend it!).