Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

None of which will save either your vacation or your wife.
Steadying support while you take it one crisis at a time. Don't forget your self-care. The stormier the season, the more important that self-care is. Ya can't save a drowning victim by drowning with them.
Is it any consolation to you that my comfy AC has made me the hit of the local rodent community? As much as I love my wildlife, not even **I** can handle living in a rat trap. If it ain't one thing, it's two. . .