Keep trying and you will become better in sports. It also helps if you like or even love particular sport - you will be more motivated to practice it.

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Manhood is not attached to sports. Being a gifted athlete doesn't make someone any more than a man than you. It just makes them a gifted athlete. Also, as a sports fan, most of the great athletes are dedicated and spend hours practicing and honing their skills. You can get better. You just need to practice.

Something IS wrong - not with YOU but with you comparing yourself to your friends. Everybody is different. Or maybe you need a different group of friends. ?

Playing football, or any other kind of sport, does not make a man "a man".

My husband and my sons are not into traditional competitive sports at all. They tried different sports - my hubby tried kickboxing and soccer and football. My oldest son tried soccer and basketball and tennis and swimming. My youngest tried soccer and BMX biking. Nothing really "stuck" with them. They didn't enjoy it and they weren't really that good at it from a competitive point of view.

But they kept trying different things. My husband decided he just really isn't into sports at all (he doesn't even like watching sports on TV), so he started focusing on computers, math, and now he's into engineering. He's what I guess you might call a "geek" but let me tell you - geeks are sexy! :) We've been together 21 years, and I didn't marry him for his money if you know what I mean! ;)

My boys kept trying out different things, too, and they still do. My oldest is now into racing and cars. He's going to school to study them and dreams of racing them professionally.

My youngest found a "sport for non-jocks" called Ultimate. He wasn't really any good at any other sport he tried, but somehow he's like a fish in water when he plays Ultimate. It seems to be a common theme among Ultimate players. They are sort of wired differently. They are incredibly athletic, and they train harder than the football team at our high school, but they just are kind of not your typical jock. And they don't play with pads and helmets like the football players do. Sometimes it can be brutal! You have to be tough and a little crazy to play Ultimate. :)

My point here, is that you should just keep trying and looking until you find something that feels right for you. It doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman. Just keep exploring until you find whatever it is that is fun for you and that you feel "clicks". Maybe there is a sport out there for you - keep looking! Or maybe sports aren't your thing, and there is something else out there waiting for you to find it. So keep looking. :)

Play sport do not make you a man. I think a man is a person who is care, gently, unstanding and other things. You are prod are good at other things. Like cook, art, music and other things. Everyone is not alway good at everything.

Bill Gates was not good at sports either and his life turned out OK. There are a lot of ways to succeed in life and sports is a very small part of the overall picture. I went to college on a track scholarship ,and
I can tell you that the relationships I have in my life have had a much greater impact on my happiness than anything I did then. You have to find your own talents and enjoy what you do well.