Anxiety Support Group
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I can't explain my anxiety when it comes to courts. But I been working on filing papers against my kids dad for co tempt of court order. Mainly because I paying all my child medical bills and and she was hospitalized and between her stuff and mine it's all too much for me. I pay alot here! I finally filed today.
Now they say I wait for order to appear and then have him served then the real issues will start with me being harassed I bracing myself. But he needs to help with these bills. Even if they change the percents based on current orders I need some help.
I dont feel good or bad just glad it's almost done. Till the serving step at least. Sigh.
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I haven't written in my diary on my computer since May because I thought that my computer was dying. I got away from writing but my computer is hanging in there. I think that I will start writing in it again. It's so therapeutic.
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Years ago, I won a mirrored armoire from my job. It's in my bedroom but I rarely stand in front of it. Yesterday, I had to have a dexascan done so I had to change into a gown. There was a full length mirror in the changing room. I'm aware that I gained 5 to 7 pounds over the last year from cheating on Keto but I didn't know what it looked like. It was a reality check.
You so deserve help. You work so hard and do so much for your kids
I wish you all the luck when it’s time for him to step up.
here's hoping your declaration leads to healing.
That's how I manage those feelings that creep in with these legal matters.
By managing the business, It provides what is needed for the business.
Here's hoping it works in a positive business method.
easy does it. small steps, big faith and lots of prayer (by whatever name).
I trying to just breathe and not overthink. Sigh.
The thing is he likes to scare you and bully you. Glad you are staying strong and doing what needs to be done.
My ex-husband was manipulative and self-absorbed. I asked him once why he was so cruel to me, did such awful things like cutting back the child support without a court order and when he had plenty of money, and he said "because I can." So know this man is likely doing the same. Because he can. Just show him he can't. That is what I did. We can't make them change or be nice but we can try to be as self-protective as possible with these users and abusers.
Here in the USA, most hospitals have a process to appeal to their bill paying department and get the fees reduced or eliminated. If one is low income enough, they forgive the whole debt. We usually have to do this appeal process immediately so it might be too late but perhaps this will help in the future. My son once got his whole debt forgiven by a hospital system (a non-profit hospital). He had a low income at that time. Best wishes on this, it is Monday today and hopefully he gets his service today.
I don’t think he thinks I will ever take him to court and he just a miserable human honestly. He only nice to me when he trying to get back together which is funny because then becomes an asshole.
He called me two mos back screaming that I forged his name and that why he got a medical bill for our daughter. We rarely talk but I will not be yelled at or be treated bad when I done so much for our kids. Luckily youngest is 17.
And she had many things happen and it isn’t right I pay it all. I won’t be talking to him tho at all. To my knowledge he hasn’t been served yet.