I have been dating a man for 3 months (long distance relationship)  who is so amazing to me.  He suffers from anxiety and depression.  I always make sure that I make myself available to him at anytime he needs to reach out.  The problem is that he tends to pull away when he starts doubting himself and the future about our relationship.  We see each other for about 3 - 4 days every month and talk on the phone for 2 - 3 hours every night and text throughout the day.  We have become so close and have fallen deeply in love with one another.  We complete each other and are there for one another.  His anxiety tends to be a very big part where it's making his job and daily life a struggle.  He is on medication and sees a therapist.  We just spent 4 wonderful days together.  A few days later he tells me he wants to end the relationship as he is having too much of a hard time being without me everyday and that he misses and loves me too much.  He can't see a future where our circumstances being distance and kids would change.  He lives in the USA and I live in Canada.  We are 7 - 8 hours aways but I know we can make it work.  He is the man I have been looking for all my life.  I told him that I can see each other living together in the next year or 2 but everything takes time and patience.  We are still in the dating and getting to know each other.  The love we have for each other is strong but his anxiety always leaves him doubtful and pulls back.  He said he needs time to think about everything and if we should continue our relationship or end it.  He says he is afraid to keep going and hurting me as he doesn't know how to do this halfway.  Please help....