Hi Emily,

In very fast society we expect success immediately, but it requires work and patience. Give it few tries and required time and you will be successful.

Relationship problems - sit and talk about this. Or find new positive people.

And keep fighting, do not give up.

Don't Give Up , Hang in there !

The worst thing is comparing yourself to others. You are here to take your own journey in life, not theirs. Find your own path. Things will get better. They always do.

I saw something today I really loved. "Instead of trying to figure out your whole life, just do one thing that makes you happy, then another and another."

I think that's a good way to build your life.

Looking at figuring out your career or relationships is so monumental, but if you look through "Groupons" or whatever is available in your area and allow that to inspire you to do a spa day at home, write a blog or learn more about a particular subject, it can be fun. And that could actually lead you to the right job or the right relationship.

I know that it is really awful to live with anxiety, but it can get better and you'll be able to do more of what you like. My anxiety is abating now and while I still love to do more quiet activities, it feels like the world is opening up for me.

Anxiety ebbs and flows. Enjoy the time when it's mellow and take good care of yourself when it's cranky.

Hi emily. are your problems things you can change now or are they out of your control? If they are things that are beyond your control try to set those worries aside. Maybe set aside 15mins a day to allow yourself to worry about any thing and everything. Write them down and then list next to it things you can do to change things and slowly work on changing them. Whenever you feel yourself worrying outside of those times stop and tell yourself that you will worry about it later in your allocated 'worry time' This will help your mind from ruminating all the time and make you feel more in control of your thoughts and lessen your anxiety. I hope you feel better soon hun x

Emily, believe me I know how you feel. We both have almost the exact same issues you've mentioned. We all cope differently with situation.....

We all have qualities and skills, and sometimes those around us tend to over look who we are as a person and what we are capable of.....you take what you enjoy either it be Art, Music, Poetry, etc, and you turn that into a passion. Success can take some a lifetime, and others that one big step......like Steve Jobs creating Apple in his garage, he was laughed at and doors closed in his face so many times, however, he stuck with what he believed in and became one of the biggest success stories.......

Never give up............as hard as that may sound, you can be the biggest success because of WHO you are.....we all are unique as individuals and strive for happiness.........your not alone on your quest :)

I can really relate to your pain, having felt it many times myself. Relationship problems suck, they are so painful. It hurts so bad when I feel pushed around. As far as success goes, sometimes I am able to remind myself that so-called successful people are often still very unhappy. I so hope you find what you need to feel better.