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Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

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Clauressa
Clauressa

my friends have been telling me my girlfriend has been cheating on me with her bestfriend and i don't believe them but they have proof and she's been lying to me a lot and i hope she hasn't i love her i've been to hell and im still in it for her and i don't want to confront her about it because she'll get mad at me.

StarBrightGal
StarBrightGal
I feel you have to be honest with her about this. Go easy on her, but if she is cheating you’ll never get the truth out of her unless you go to her.
burgerkingfootlettuce
burgerkingfootlettuce
You should not Be afraid she should get mad at you. If anything you should be upset with her. You need to confront her ASAP ‘cause allowing this to happen will just break your heart more
Community LeaderMid
Mid
First. You are doing the right thing to assess your true feelings about this situation.
Second. You are considering the usual response to the option listed.
Third. Take the time to follow through on your feelings and what you truly want for your well-being.
You are not responsible for how someone else is acting or being. You are responsible for how you feel, act, and be. Once you change your usual response to one that better fits your well-being, the other person's response will change, and this changes the situation.
You are taking the time to consider everything, and that more than anything else will give you a better balance to handle this.
Best wishes.
RickR
RickR
Sorry you are experiencing this. Honesty and understanding each others expectations are very important to a relationship. Be honest with her. I'll expect good things from you both because of your honest relationship. Always guessing, wondering won't do you any good. Have a loving, caring and forgiving heart towards her until you understand the situation and your heart and mind can be at peace.
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