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Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

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i dont feel good..

thornesaab
thornesaab

I feel like things are crushing me. But i dont know what to do. Or hpw i could change anything. Its like im trapped.. and my stomache hurts from anxiety and im sad.

thornesaab
thornesaab
And i feel like i will die without having had any female relationship.. there already were 2 girls who liked me, i think, but for some reason they left me. I only tried to make a first step one time, but it didnt work out. Maybe the other girls thought i was too childish and weird.
thornesaab
thornesaab
I dont think i can ever start any relationship anymore. Im even having trouble keeping my 2 friendships from good old times of the same gender alive...
arfie
arfie
It's hard to form good relationships with other people when you don't have a good relationship with yourself.

Sustainable changes happen slowly in small moves. Talking freely here could be a good small move.
SimpsonsOK
SimpsonsOK
Thorn, sometimes picking someone who can be a model for me has helped. I have a very outgoing friend who engages people where ever she goes. I can't be her, but I did learn to smile at folks, make a small comment or give a small compliment. Other than that, I remember that to have a friend, I must be a friend. Comforting hugs.
Carlosadell
Carlosadell
Hi Thorn, I am with Arfie, being in peace and in love with yourself it's crucial for someone else to feel the same about you.
Would you say better relationships with women would make your life different?
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