Anxiety Support Group

Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

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emilyam 07/09/2014

I need to live with my boyfriend but he won't write his income details for each fortnight for my disability payment

I can't live here I'm so stressed

What do I do what do I do!

LuckyEmpath 07/09/2014

Hi. Has he said why he won't provide his income details? Is there someone else you can live with? Friend, relative?

Reed31 07/09/2014

I don't know what all your options are or how you feel about living with your boyfriend. Do you live with him now or are you needing to move in with him?

I hate nagging people so generally what I have done with partners is to let them know when the hard deadline is for something, how important it is, what I need them to do, what the options are and then discuss any objections.

So - "I need to turn in my disability paperwork by next Friday. It's very important because if I don't get it in, I won't be able to pay rent. My only other option is to move in with another friend. Can you help by filling in this section on your income details? If not, can you tell me why? I need this done by Wednesday so I can get it in on time."

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