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Feeling useless

Mathieu-Beaulieu
Mathieu-Beaulieu

Done whit bs crap of people telling me I am lazy my whole life has been spent Bening told I am worthless and useless and lazy because I don't take the first job that I see because I don't want to have to quit 3 months later cause I hate my job


Then I had a trailer so I could start a business but that riped right out of my hands by gf father who is saying this stuff too my gf can't say it to my face that what I call cowardice 


I have just gotten to point that I don't know what to do anymore I am really fed up 


I am trying so hard just to be pushed back down to the ground as soon as I get even an inch something that I feel like my luck is about to turn then this happens making my gf feel like crap  what should I do 


Could use some advice on this before I do something stupid again cause I mow a family might not be my kid but I love like he my own  


In just feel like I going nowhere 


SimpsonsOK
SimpsonsOK
OK, you are clearly upset about all this stuff. Nobody is useless, but sometimes we do need to hit bottom to get out of our own way. Maybe it begins with being willing to work for someone to learn how to start a business.
Maybe it starts with deciding that it's time to stop being angry, and setting some goals. We hear your frustration, and will be here for you as you sort all this out.
Mathieu-Beaulieu
Mathieu-Beaulieu
I know how to run business already had partner lines up then trailer was taken from me and given to someone else who make 3 to 4 time more a year then me I need it more them
Either way and I have made plans but they all blow up in my face
arfie
arfie
I'm wondering if you need support far more than you need advice. Inside my own life, every single one of the people who made me feel worthless thought they were giving me lots and lots of good advice in the process. As a result, advice-giving/seeking tends to confuse me far more often than it helps me.

Dunno. . . Just wondering. . .

Gentle support while you find your way, Mathieu.
SimpsonsOK
SimpsonsOK
Mathieu, you will start over again. For me, I sometimes only see my mistakes and ignore how much in my life has not been a failure. You have the skills needed to do this, and you will. Comforting hugs.
Captain-M
Captain-M
Nobody is useless, have small realistic goals. Take baby steps. At least you are opening to strangers. Focus on one thing at a time and try not to get over-whelmed. Do your tasks at your own pace. When you do step back and try again. Reward your self once in a while.
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