anxiety can make u feel any kind of lonely, u need people or u feel so down u don't want 2 b around anyone. if u want more info, whenever u have free time do some research online. sometimes getting more accurate info can help u understand your feelings better.

Two of the many weapons anxiety has at its disposal are isolation and depersonalisation and yes if you let it, it can quite easily make you think badly of the ones you love. When this happens be very aware this is NOT YOU it is anxiety doing this and dismiss these thoughts as irrational because you will find that when the anxiety attacks die down you will be left with the thought "what was i thinking?"
It does this by infiltrating your natural thought process with negativity converting any feeling you have for an individual into negative ones. Its harsh because you really dont know it is happening until someone points it out to you and left to deal with it alone it can lead you to question your own feelings for that person/persons.
When this happens to you, just say to yourself, this is NOT me this is anxiety talking and dont let it win because it is what anxiety wants....you to itself, the reason.... because things like love make your body produce endorphins making you feel relaxed and happy and THAT is anxieties worst nightmare.

Steve

well said Steve,
keep up with staying positive, favoritesong, and get invovled as much as you can with those you are close too. dont let negative thoughts rule you by isolation. i've done that in the past so many times its painfully lonely and doesnt get better. have a balanced alone time as well.

I have experienced this in extremely long bouts for over a year and I am really looking to alleviate it as well. It can be so incredibly confusing, especially because this version of anxiety is about one single person. I really do not want this person out of my life, but I'm constantly afraid that I will want them to go away for some reason and I kind of work my way into making them completely negative in my head and it's a tiring mess to fight it really. I wanted to let you know that I definitely relate to this, and am seeking some solace, because this the only problem I've had with anxiety.

Gator...

sighs, this is sooooo easily done dont be hard on yourself for doing it ok. When someone means that much too you, you will have a tendancy to make those thoughts negative to prepare yourself for loosing them it is a subpsychologic thing that will happen naturally and you cant control it but you can control how much effect it has on you. What you have to do is recognize this....this person is in your life because they want to be nothing more nothing less and no amount of worrying or stressing over them leaving is going to change the outcome...except NEGATIVELY. If you do this, it will come out in your body language and shut you down from being able to communicate with them exactly what you feel. You think if you open up to them then somehow that will work against you and yes if is the wrong person then it will
BUT then you will know conclusively if this person deserves and warrents that. If you open up to someone and they use that knowledge against you then frankly they dont deserve the position in the first place so you are better off moving on and finding someone that does.
Thing i hate most about anxiety is the way it does this and shuts down the most basic of gifts that we have as a species...communication. Dont let it. Giving and receiving love and affection from whoever is the most valuable thing we have as humans so dont let anxiety get in the way of that.
If you love someone, regardless of wether they are a partner a freind or even a sibling.....set them free....and if its right, they wil always fly back to you it is as simple as that.

i go through this when my anxiety sparks up. and yes its your anxiety, not really "you". remember that.