Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
If you do not trust your doctor get a new one.
You won't feel better until you let the doctors help you feel better. If this is a serious problem that does require surgery then it's not going to get better with time. It will just get work.
My suggestion is that you be brave and allow them to help you. It's scary but thats why your husband should be there for support. Not just a wall you can hide behind. He cannot make the pain go away and it's a bit selfish to have him cater to your needs when you could already be feeling better.