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serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks

So I been in process of filing court papers and doing what's needed to have my kids dad served to get reimbursement for medical expenses.  I finally got all filed for him to be served on Friday. 


I assumed be be served either today or tomorrow. Around 2 or 3pm he called me so I knew he had to of been served. I didn't answer and blocked him. He then called my daughter whom said I was out. 


I am away till tomorrow and to say I assume just stay here is understatement. 


The process server called and updated me how it went. It didn't go well while he can be aggressive and has a temper I didn't think he do much with being served.


Welp he tried to deny who he was. He then kicked the guy off his property and tried to shove the papera under his hood. He was like following him off the property but like really  close. The process server said he was really aggressive and made hiM nervous toward a possibly altercation.... that being said told me to be careful. I like yep and was like here we go with whatever is going to happen. 


So my anxiety got so bad I was shaking. I been in the pending doom phase since I submitted everything for serving him. But now he been served and my anxiety is so bad. I walked a lot and it feels same. 

GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
He sounds like a piece of work. Be careful.
Marian2
Marian2
I am so sorry Serenity.
I hope your anxiety subsides.
Yes be careful and maybe he will cool down after some time has passed?
Wishing you the best outcome with this situation
arfie
arfie
breathing with you, serenity. one step at a time. easy does it.

hope healing happens here.
Jalen22003
Jalen22003
im sorry that you are dealing with this, i hope everything goes well.
Community LeaderMid
Mid
You have a paper trail and this can be used for evidence if needed to keep him at a safe distance.

Here's to your success in having the process server be able to complete the serve.
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
He was served. That was him being served but they submit that to the court so if he doesn’t attend he will get in trouble. I pretty sure he will show up it’s virtual. But he knows I only be serving him if over money which he won’t give easily. I have him blocked. And I extending travel related to work if I can just for my peace of mind. I doing my part to avoid seeing home or any contact.
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