Anger Management Support Group

Anger management commonly refers to therapeutic techniques by which someone with excessive or uncontrollable anger can control or reduce their emotions. Typical examples include the use of deep breathing and meditation as a means to relaxation. Psychologists recommend a balanced approach, which both controls the emotion and allows it to express itself in a healthy way.

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HE CHEATED!!!

HippieBeams
HippieBeams
I'm so angry. He always said people who cheat should be killed, so what did he do? cheated on me!!!!!! so I slapped him, knowing that he can't stand that, but honestly, I think he deserved it. come on, open hand slap on the cheek, big waaah. I know he was beat most of his life, but I couldn't express in words what I wanted to say. I said a lot. Tried to explain to him that all we've worked for is now flushed down the toilet because he's an a$$h013. And now I'm so angry and I don't know what to do.... I know he's done. I don't even want to look at him. But I gotta go get my stuff from his apartment. Stupid men, I have a knack for picking the weiners.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah me to, let's make a club.
playerapr
playerapr
Feeling the same anger towards him and the OW!! I want to bicth slap both of them!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Kind of a double-standard, don't you think?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am open to joining the club. Been cheated on as well. It does make one angry that you put so much effect and have made so many sacrifices for these relationships ..how easy these men write us off as if it were nothing.
Adding insult to injury my ex chased after 19 & 20something year old girls (he is 60 yrs old) from Myspace.com
I am a very capable woman with much to offer and he turned to little girls..beyond disgusting and insulting to me as a woman.
deleted_user
deleted_user
How does one deal with this? I'm asking because I have a suspicion that my husband either did, or is, or is considering cheating...I don't think he has the time, but I'm seeing behavior that warrants my concern...no sex, no touching, he's always mad at me and finding ways to fight so he can just leave for a few hours...works 'late'...anyway...maybe it's all just a part of his mid-life issue - but I'm feeling - well, I'm feeling something and I don't even know how to explain it...and honestly, I'm not sure I would know what to do if he was cheating...am I strong enough to boot his ass? I just don't know..I really don't...I come from two broken homes...I really wanted a 'family' for my kids - but I realize when two become one...I can't control the other half...even tho I really want to.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I suspect my husband has been cheating on me with an old girlfriend. The funny thing is I found out through this website. I happened to type in her name and it brought me to here. She just had the weight loss surgery and she had a question about oral sex with him tasting like salt. I confronted him about it because she never said his name but she knows he is married to me and she won't let go. This has been for 10 years. She is divorced but she wants other peoples husbands. She just won't go out and get her own. He isn't innocent in all of this either. But she is no longer a victim because she knows we are together and have been for 23 years and she still won't move on. But after I confronted him about her posting on this site she deleted her account. Does that say guilty? Or do you think she is afraid of me?
deleted_user
deleted_user
2boys: Sorry to hear about your concerns. My ex who is 60 now but I met him when he was 55 yrs old. All was great until I saw signs of his behavior changing. Less time together, his change in attitude and disposition towards me. arguments, he just was not receptive to me. With time I found out there was an ex girlfriend and eventually with time others started to suffice. Because they were all young girls (promiscuous) he turned to them and turned away from our relationship. He discovered he has a history of this kind of thing. If you have some concerns about the relationship between your and your partner..it 's time to talk about it and get it out in the open..Hope the best for your both.