Since they are no longer in his life it might be eaiser to just put their pictures up so seeing them does not cause any confusion for him. They had their chance and didn't care so just don't worry about them.

I am so sorry about that. I can imagine how you feel and how he would feel if he were aware. Maybe he thinks about it later and realizes he did in fact slip up.

I visited my children a few months ago (all out of state) and was somewhat traumatized by an event that haunts me when I remember it - like after reading your post.

I was looking at photos with my 29 yr old daughter - my first born and the love of my life. She showed me a photo of a woman standing with my 5yr old grandson. I commented on his cuteness and asked her who the lady was.

It was her.

I realized it as soon as she said it - it looked like no one but her. I tried to blow it off so as not to upset her but I cried later.

I guess even though I recognize HER, the abstract and disconnect of a flat photo just didn't trigger anything in my head.

Ugh!

I just hate this dementia. Stuff like this happens often but I am okay with it for the most part, when it happens in private, or with my husband present (he really understands). I just stay home now to keep opportunities for confusion and non-recognitition fewer.

I think I am still aware most of the time although I don't remember many of my days - just points of interest, if any, IF any happen. I live like today is the last day I will be aware.

Thanks for posting this.

Hugs for you and hubby.

Deborah -Your step-daughters are missing out on some important years they can never get back, or make up. Their loss ! It may be a blessing your husband doesn't remember them... at least he can't be hurt by their indifference.

Replaceco - you handled that difficult event very well. I'm happy that your have an understanding and supportive family. And you - my prayers and blessings are flowing your way.