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Deborah48
Deborah48
Rollie's funeral will be Friday. I spoke with the chaplain today, what a wonderful person he is. I cried.

We talked about Rollie and his life. Then we both decided that he would not invite people to come up and speak about Rollie to minimize any chance that his family might say something stupid.

I realize I am really stressing about it and I am really trying to calm myself I think only time will this.
sosadandtired
sosadandtired
What indescribably awful people who had no time for Rollie while alive and sick but now want his ashes. I hope you press charges against them and have them thrown in jail or at the very least pay a huge fine for the emotional distress they have caused you and the family. Sending a big hug to you now dear friend and sending a prayer that this will be resolved soon.....Love you, Jeanmarie
inmemoryofhattie
inmemoryofhattie
Deb,

I am sorry for you that there has to be any more angst to this part of a long hard road......these people are beyond....being people....they are aliens to civilized living...hope the police find them and that they are about to get a piece of what is coming to them.....

lots of hugs, and prayer.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can not believe that anyone would be that brazen.You really can not get much lower than that.

You poor thing Deborah.Today would have been so difficult for you no matter what,but putting you through this is just horrible,just horrible.

I hope Rollie comes to your rescue, and haunts them until he scares the hell out of them.
loveyorks
loveyorks
OMG - I can hardly beleive what I'm reading!!! May God help them all, they deserve whatever is coming to them... Hugs and hope it turns out OK
deleted_user
deleted_user
Of all the things I imagined that could happen this was not one of them...OMG. It's like a novel with a sick plot.

I hope that the police are able to find the urn quickly. As to punishment, well I can only imagine that they were distraught. I'm sure the cemetary workers will have assault charges to file. You should also get an order of protection and have them pay any additional expenses from the cemetery and funeral home.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh my Lord... you poor dear, how horrible, after all you have gone through this is terrible. Please take care, we are all hear to support and help you along. Patricia.
deleted_user
deleted_user
He is in a better place now. No more pain.
It is hard to believe that he is gone. I feel sadness and happines for him and you. May God be with you through all this.

I worry about how my mom will pass everyday I think about it. I hope she will not be in pain.
God bless all of you here.
pina
Pam65
Pam65
OMG!!!!! That's too much!!!!!!! I can't wait to hear the end of this story. I know it will be a loo-loo. I'm just so darn happy that what they did is illegal. That's priceless! This whole thing sounds like a scene from "Little Miss Sunshine"