Alzheimer's Disease Support Group
Alzheimer's disease (AD) is the most common cause of dementia and characterized by progressive cognitive deterioration with declining activities of daily living and neuropsychiatric symptoms or behavioral changes. An early symptom is memory loss (amnesia), usually manifesting as minor forgetfulness that becomes pronounced with illness progression, with relative...
OMFG! We received an EASTER card from his oldest daughter! Not only that but it was addressed to Mr & Mrs!!!!!!! She hasn't included me in the past.
It says, "Hope you all are doing great and have a very happy Easter and every day"
So I emailed her back,
"Thank you for the card. Your dad is not doing well." I almost put, he is near the end but decided against it. I don't want any fricking calls "OMG! is he near the end? We didn't know, we had no idea" So they can interpret 'not doing well' however they want.
Here is what I wanted to say, %^&%$$! and %^&&! and go %&*&^% yourself, well there's more but I think you get the idea.
It says, "Hope you all are doing great and have a very happy Easter and every day"
So I emailed her back,
"Thank you for the card. Your dad is not doing well." I almost put, he is near the end but decided against it. I don't want any fricking calls "OMG! is he near the end? We didn't know, we had no idea" So they can interpret 'not doing well' however they want.
Here is what I wanted to say, %^&%$$! and %^&&! and go %&*&^% yourself, well there's more but I think you get the idea.
These people should all go to hell for eternity with their relative in the worst state!
Not at my charitable best today! no kidding....
she was to come a couple weeks ago and visit with him while I took the neighbor lady to dinner, She cancelled at the last minute. Monday she called and wanted to know if she could come with her daughter and her two kids and two other kids!!! My hubby told her no, he couldn't take the chaos but that they could come one family at a time and he would like that. So she was going to come last night.....you guessed it...she called and cancelled AGAIN!! I quit worrying about her or what she thinks because it is obvious she doesn't care. She will be making the most noise at the funeral home---I'll take bets on it.
You are both doing the right thing...we have enough on our hands, let them make the effort if they are truly interested --otherwise...
_(*$@(*#&%a#^#%@a#@a_(&$a@*(%a*$^!!!
A distant relative asked me after Ron died why I didn't let them know he was near the end. . I just said " Well, I emailed everyone Ron was in Hospice care". I guess I assumed everyone knew what
that meant. After all.. you don't go to hospice to get well. UGH ! People !