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SeanPain
SeanPain
So yesterday i picked up a client who was in tears and who IS going through some things very similar to what happened between me and my wife about 7 years ago now and almost broke into tears myself when she asked about my relationship with god......and now i cant stop thinking about what has happened to me in the past and what is still happening in a way, I hate that i have a fucked up back and i hate that after i workout i can barely move the next morning. I should feel honored that i am still walking after my back surgery last year BUT at this point i dont even care. I cried for atleast a half an hour last night and then went home and doped myself up into going to bed.
annieheart
annieheart
Sometimes we need that.Crying does suck but its what we need a release.I hope you are feeling better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There is nothing wrong with crying in pain. Believe me, we have all been there! I have been there too many times to count. You mentioned briefly your relationship with God but did not elobrate. That is private between you and God, but I have cried out to Him many times and tell Him that He thinks that I can handle more than I think I can, then I wake up the next day feeling a little better. There is a tomorrow,
just hang in there!

Mary Lou
pugzybear
pugzybear
tears refresh our souls.....reminds us to let go of the stuff we are hanging onto and shouldn't...let the pain roll out with the tears...tears are something we can't take back...so whatever you let roll with the tears...keep it gone like the tears...(don't know if this makes sense....but maybe you get what I mean...) hugs
annieheart
annieheart
I think it makes perfect sence.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
Easy on the drugs! The brain has a way of healing itself over time but when you mess things up with dope, your brain cannot do what nature intended!

Have yourself a good cry, put your problems in God's hands and go to bed with a clear heart and soul!

God Bless!
SeanPain
SeanPain
Thx for all the replies guys im glad to see that i do still have support here at MB and DS and all of the suggestions are helpful and make since. I just started my Vistarel tuesday and it seems to be helping a bit as my social anxiety has been getting worse as of late and in turn forcing me to take a vistarel just before i head into a situation that involves alot of people being there. Actually its that time right now lol.....
inkprincess73
inkprincess73
I agree with Bob on the drugs. Been there. Not good.

One thing that struck me in your post is that you are thankful now, but a year ago you could have cared less. That tells me that you are progressing. Feel good about the progress you make, and don't put pressure on yourself to achieve perfection.
wag952
wag952
Sound advice Ink, I really cant add much to that. Just hang in there dude and avoid the meds if you can. Holding onto a crutch too long only makes you needy, not strong.
SeanPain
SeanPain
Thx again guys for the advice.....I dont want to take the drugs honestly but before them i was very volitile all the time but now since we've found that im bi-polar and are trying out meds for that im doing alot better....Now there taking me off of haldol slowly and trying me on abilify and the visteril, Hopefully this will be all and i can go on being atleast at times mentally stable.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
If you've been diagnosed with these mental health problems by a psychiatrist then thats fine but the mistake many people make is that they want a quick fix to all of their problems and unfortunately life doesn't work like that.

Peace!
Cloudguard
Cloudguard
Nothing wrong with crying Mr. Pain it relieves stress and clears the mind, it calms rage. Of course as men we are taught not to. this causes us undue stress and we tend to vent in a violent manner. Sometimes violent confrontation is unavoidable but find it is healing to me if I do not initiate it. Of course it is embarassing to us as men to cry so if you do find a private place where you can do as you please it's nobodys fricken business but yours. Sometimes meds are necessary.
SeanPain
SeanPain
Yeah thats what i wanted at first but now i realize that there is no such thing in this life, A quick fix just doesn't exist well.....one does i guess but i for one do not want a permanent fix as some do. I do appreciate the concerns and advice from all of you. Thank you everyone very very much
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