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Stages of Alcohol Withdrawal Symptoms

Alcoholism doesn't begin with apparent alcohol withdrawal symptoms, they can take years to develop. The process is know by clinicians as "Alcohol Withdrawal Syndrome". Alcoholism itself begins when drinking starts to adversely effect the physical health and even the mental health of the drinker, though he or she usually has no clue that anything is wrong. It is at this time a person crosses over that imaginary line (you may or may not have heard of it) into alcoholism.

Stage One - The Early Years of Alcohol Addiction

In this, the adaptive stage of alcoholism, the drinker is no longer drinking for the same reasons he or she started drinking for in the first place. It's no longer peer pressure, curiosity, social events or that they enjoy the taste of alcohol. No, they are drinking and probably more by now, for the effects that the alcohol can produce, though they probably don't realize it. The effects that they are seeking could be a mood change or possibly stress relief from some problem in their life. The drinker hasn't gotten sloppy or lost total control of his life or body yet and he, his family and friends still don't know what personal hell awaits him, should he be a "real alcoholic".

Stage Two - More Alcohol, More Often, More DUI

By now the alcoholic is drinking more often and for any reason. He may even be fabricating problems to drink over. He is now probably drinking until he exceeds socially acceptable limits or until he losses control of his physical and mental capabilities. He may have even been arrested by now for driving under the influence of alcohol. In this middle stage of alcoholism the family and friends become aware that there may be a problem, but the alcoholic himself, may think his only problem is that his friends and family think he's got a problem. He is sure that they just don't understand he could quit anytime he wants to. Not now of course, he just needs everyone to get off his back and he'll be fine.

Stage Three - Is It Too Late?

The chronic stage of alcoholism is terrifying for the family and any friend that may be left in the alcoholic's life. They are watching his body and mind slip away due to internal damage to vital organs. Damage that may be irreversible and can result in hepatitis, heart failure, cirrhosis of the liver, etc. They try to talk some sense into him, but it may be too late. All of their talk just gives him more problems to drink over. In many cases it takes a traumatic or very embarrassing event, such as a DUI or drunk driving arrest to get the alcoholics attention to the extent that he really wants to stop drinking. Even if he really wants to stop, he's about to find out how easy it is not!

Alcohol Detox or Withdrawal Symptoms - Alcohol Withdrawal Syndrome

Alcohol detox or withdrawal symptoms that are experienced by people who have stopped drinking alcohol abruptly (cold turkey) can range from mild to life-threatening if not properly treated. The severity of these alcohol withdrawal symptoms is usually dependent upon how "alcohol dependent" the chronic drinker has become. Those who drink heavily on a daily basis of course have developed a high level of dependency on alcohol and will almost certainly experience at least some severe withdrawal symptoms, but even those who drink alcohol daily, but not heavily and those who drink alcohol heavily but not daily, can also be chemically dependent upon alcohol.

When someone who has become "alcohol dependent" stops drinking abruptly, they will experience some level of physical discomfort. This is why it is extremely difficult for alcoholics to stop drinking "on their own" without the assistance and support of an alcohol rehab center or support group.

The Shakes, Sweats, Nausea, Headache, Rapid Heart Beat and Increased Blood Pressure

For some, who are less chemically dependent, withdrawal symptoms might be as "mild" as merely getting the shakes, the sweats or night sweats - perhaps nausea, headache, anxiety, a rapid heart beat and increased blood pressure.

Although these alcohol withdrawal symptoms are uncomfortable and irritating, they are not necessarily dangerous. But they are often accompanied by the "craving" for more alcohol, making the decision to continue abstinence much more difficult to make without counseling or support.

Even the "morning after hangover" of someone who only occasionally drinks to excess, is actually a mild form of alcohol withdrawal from the excesses of the night before, as the alcohol content of their blood begins to drop. The symptoms can appear within a few hours after not drinking.

More Serious - Hallucinations and Seizures

Within six to 48 hours after not drinking, hallucinations may develop for the more seriously alcohol dependent. These are usually visual hallucinations but they can also involve sounds and smells. They can last for a few hours or up to weeks at a time. Also within this time frame after quitting, convulsions or seizures can occur, which is the point at which alcoholism and alcohol withdrawal becomes dangerous if not medically treated.

I'll Never Drink Again, Really!!!

After a particularly damaging or embarrassing alcohol binge, a seriously dependent alcohol drinker will make an oath to "never drink again" and really mean it this time.

However, when severe alcohol withdrawal symptoms begin and the "phenomenon of craving" sets in, the body is telling the drinker that it needs more alcohol. When the physical symptoms of alcohol withdrawal begin to intensify, taking another drink simply becomes less painful than not taking one or so it seems at the time. Thus, the vicious, repetitive cycle of binge drinking, sobering up, emerging remorseful and swearing off, only to drink again when the pain gets too bad, begins and repeats over and over again.

Chronic Alcoholism - The DT's (Delirium Tremens)

Chronic alcoholism and it's severe withdrawal symptoms may progress to delirium tremens (DT's) after three to five days without alcohol. The symptoms of DT's include profound confusion, disorientation, hallucinations, hyperactivity and extreme cardiovascular disturbances. This condition causes shifts in your breathing, your circulation and your temperature control. It can cause your heart to race or can cause your blood pressure to increase dramatically and it can cause serious dehydration.

Once DT's begin, there is no known medical treatment to stop them. Grand mal seizures, heart attacks and strokes can occur during the DT's, all of these serious alcohol withdrawal symptoms can be fatal to an alcoholic if not properly treated.

If you or someone you care about is experiencing Alcohol Withdrawal Syndrome, please contact an alcohol detox center before it's too late!



Thanks, nod, this is helpful. There have been some newcomers the past couple days asking specifically about alcohol withdrawal. This is good guidance.

sorry it was so long. Person could detox completely before they finished reading it lol

It's perfect & very helpful. I absolutely wish I had seen this back when I needed it and was scared & confused & wondering if I was going to die.

I called a local "ask a nurse" line in desperation and was given very little information or advice as to what I was experiencing.

I strongly encourage anyone who has questions on withdrawal to take the time & read this through. Very helpful Obi!

I read this and have tears in my eyes, I think back to how i went through alot of that i did it on my own at home with my children worried sick over me, i would not let them call anyone said i could do it,, I did however now reading this i could have died all because i was to assamed to let others in.. So worried about what others would think of me. I am happy to be here today to try and help others.. Even just as happy that everyone in my family knows now and understands to the best they can, Thanks for the post

I appreciate your posts. I too experienced this but didn't have the knowledge as to what was happening to me. I just knew I was really, really sick in every sense of the word "sick".

i've been through it all. to the innocuous passing out in my parents front yard for the neighbors could gossip and gawk. to the sizures and the d.t.'s.i am #3 inthe family with the disease and the others are dead. my fate, my very life will always be a huge question mark.

Cronic alcoholism....oops, he blinked better give him some more Haldol, cogenten & ativan ( the magic bullet)

I haven't had the opportunity to ask my girlfriend, who just had a stroke and her husband die recently, if she was detoxing herself from drugs and alcohol.
I'll betcha a million bucks that's what caused her stroke. Well, of course, the drug and alcohol abuse alone could do that. But I'm thinking because her husband died and had the same issues, that she gave it up cold turkey.
I've always home-detoxed but never totally alone. My bf would monitor my blood pressure and help me as much as he was capable. Even then, there were times he thought it was touch-n-go for me. My worst times were from vodka, years ago.
I encourage anybody to seek a doctor's opinion before home-detoxing. A doctor that is knowledgeable about addictions.

See, Inthe not so distant past, I've made it about 10 before I go buck wild and start drinking all over again. . The worst withdrawal i have had (and believe me, i have been drinking long and hard) is restless energy , night sweats (BAD BAD BAD,) and I also have these terrible nightmares, that wake me. But I've survived it.

One prevalent thought that used to care me was that if I have practically been drinking everyday for years and years, I will SURELY have DTs and could die from it.

Each time i took the risk, that didnt happen to me.

Just saying, some of this stuff scares a newcomer (like moi)_ in to not taking the step to staying sober on their own...even if just for a few days.

I think that if anyone is ready to stop for a few days, or any set amount of time, ,and they want to it on their own, it's OK to try as long as you have a good friend, and the hospital programmed on speed dial.

How glamorous, inst it?
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