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I am getting a little nervouse, I am having over my father, step sister and nieces today, in a couple hours, and my step sister and father have not seen each other for a few years...I am nervous for them...I just want everything to go smoothly....we are doing our Christmas with my nieces, or my father is...we usually wait because there is just so much going on christmas day and eve for my nieces....
Anyways, I do not think there will be any bickering it just that my sister tends to be dramatic about things...explaining why it has been so long and stuff, my father is a very quiet man...not so comfortable with emotional stuff...this should be interesting...I just hope they keep it on a positive note and she doesnt start going into her whole drama with her boyfriend and bi polar stuff....
Does this sound silly? am I just nervous? Probable so....
Well, I didnt feel like cooking so I am order in chinesse , much easier...lol..and I suck at cooking...one thing AI want to get better at in 2009 :)
so, another question...any goals for 2009?
Anyways, I do not think there will be any bickering it just that my sister tends to be dramatic about things...explaining why it has been so long and stuff, my father is a very quiet man...not so comfortable with emotional stuff...this should be interesting...I just hope they keep it on a positive note and she doesnt start going into her whole drama with her boyfriend and bi polar stuff....
Does this sound silly? am I just nervous? Probable so....
Well, I didnt feel like cooking so I am order in chinesse , much easier...lol..and I suck at cooking...one thing AI want to get better at in 2009 :)
so, another question...any goals for 2009?
All I can say (and this is probably not too useful) is just to focus on the things you can control, do your best on those and let the rest slide.
Not much you can do about how others choose to act, so just work on planning out an enjoyable time for everyone and hope for the best out of everyone else.
My goal for 2009? Fix (or at least make noticable progress on) the inner problems I have that manifest in self-destructive behavior.