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In order to make someone else happy or convince myself that someday my life would, as if by magic, get better, I have put my life on hold. I know now that it didn't work.
The magic day never came, and I was waiting and hoping for happiness that was never going to come. I am worthy of being happy, of having people love me the way I want to be loved, and of making my own choices about what happens to me.
It's my life. Today I take it back.
The magic day never came, and I was waiting and hoping for happiness that was never going to come. I am worthy of being happy, of having people love me the way I want to be loved, and of making my own choices about what happens to me.
It's my life. Today I take it back.
It is a wonderful thing when you realize that someday is now.
I try to keep things in the present. I plan for the future. I look forward to future events. That's about it. One foot in front of the other and doing the next right thing seems to be working just fine for me for today.
As I hear all the time... Have a Nice Day (unless you've made other plans). :)
xo
~Chris
Today, I can make healthy choices about who I hang with and what we both bring to the table. Ah, balance in a relationship. And I'm most careful with the language I use towards myself. People are not meant to be alone but good to know that, no matter what, I can be ok in my skin.
Step 4 helped me find out who I was, which helped me to see how I became who I was, the influences in my life, and after that little trip down memory lane, I was able to see I could change and be who I wanted to be. No longer rely on others to make me happy, nor myself needing to make others happy. By being independently happy myself, I can 'share' this with others. It's MY life!
In my delusional mind as long as all the hostages were doing what I said, all was OK.
The hostages were a part of well oiled enabler machine.
That all quit working. Upon surrender, acceptance, basement level expectations, and the hula hoop theory, I just really don't care much about drama filled people or situations. I will just go float down the river with my eyes closed,,lol.
Kinda OT G, but i was just sharing my brother, have a great day.