Yep, it is all about posting with the right intention to start with. Sometimes we just have to let things go.

Today, I will be the best m8bear I can be and not let others effect me (boy is that hard some days!)

Healthy is knowing...good for venting in another way.

Ah, so it's not just ME! That's a relief. I've been kicking myself that the posting was making me angry. I've had to smack myself a couple times so that I remain civilized and reasonable in my few short responses to it.

Thank you, Whoo. You, too, m8bear, for reminding me to refuse to allow another to throw me out of balance.

I was told, in the past, to use ignore.

but

then I was worried I was missing something. My dragon whispered to me "come fly with me, humans are impermanent and troublesome
and should never shake you from your goal..

Namaste

I never put people on "iggy", either. I'm not sure if I'm completely honest as to why I don't.
I like to say because it would be avoiding conflict, but something whispers at me that I'm a big, fat, hairy liar and I enjoy engaging in conflict.
Hey, I live alone...........

Thanks Namaste, I was just about to suggest the same thing, but, I can understand how it can be hard to ignore people who are in desperate need of a 'new one'. I am working on that....but...I am not there yet, so....I guess I am still willing to let people 'go ahead and make my day'...but also willing to step off of that. (Oh boy, I really like that icon too, cute, cute!)

I live alone too Woo Hoo, but out of choice. That can make all the difference in accepting and embracing it. Alot of people piss me off. But really I have gotten much better.

Hopen....I used to say I had Tourettes of the mouth.

People could wind me up and set me loose. Not good friends.

Of course I had been trained and was fairly well honed. I have been Thanked and I have been cursed.
Cast not your pearls before swine...but online anyone can read.

I truly hope you feel less angst WooHoo, it just tears yourself apart....and no one else cares....that was my case too
Life is full of pain and suffering, I try not to contribute to it....but I fall short many times
But you...have to live....with you Be gentle to yourself, it is a lifetime work

Namaste

Adrenaline is my third drug of choice. I like to get mad because I love the rush. It delivers some nasty hangovers, though.

Nemo-
You don't have to be upset to get that Adrenaline rush.....
;)

I don't like adrenaline in the anger form, but I must get something out of it. I think sometimes it's just watching someone's face after I use my sword on them (a someone who has just been a jerk, probably to someone I care about) and their face goes blank, as if to say 'where the f did that little girl get all that explosive energy from?, watch out, duck!....and I thought she was so quiet'...and then they start following me around....go figure.

Whoohoo, thanks for throwing me that 'bone'! LMAO ROFL, ohhhhh boy, yep! K....anyway, PAT, I like your icon! Whew, I crack my damn self up!