Take her to an AA meeting. Maybe even find one that has a Al-anon meeting in another room at the same time.
Your demonstration that you want to understand and maybe change also will show her that you rally care and support her in her sobriety.
Also there is a slight possibility you just may learn something about yourself and why you ended up with an alcoholic.

Can't think of anything to add to what Reed posted. Spot on!

She's still new in her recovery. All you can do is sit back and watch her grow.... (she may not). Recovery is tricky and not perfect. But her acceptance and willingness to change her alkie thinking will give her more strength each day to succeed. She has to take action though. Can't sit and hope it just happens by osmosis.

Alanon is a great suggestion already made. It will help you to see the truth through all of this and will definitely get you grounded with YOU. I think that's where you need to be.

You receive some wonderful info here. I would have used the word encourage her to go to an AA meeting. Calling her sponsor or sitting down a reading AA literature was a great help to me early in recovery and still today. I would like to repeat Alanon will be great support for you.
Tina

thank you all for ur advice, she does go to several AA meetings each week like 3 or 4 durin the week. so she has tried or is tryin very hard she is still on the right path this al-anon place sounds good but i was def an alcholic or at least aslcholol has gotten me into a lot of trouble. i would love to go to regular meetings with her i just dunno if this is somethin ishould do or give her her time or space nd whatever she seems to be close to all her members so i dunno if this is violatin her space.

i guees i am lucky i never needed a social life cause i wasnt very social.i see folks get sober and complain there bored all the time.dont know what to do with thereselves.what age group are you guy????/