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So today we postponed trip.Why?
Because me and my "better half" had fight.
Me and him are total opposites.We love each other,but his ocd,homophobia and perfectionism killing me.Who cares that the dog is eating bone on the carpet?..we own a vacuum.
I tend to ignore him when he s blabbing and complaining about every little bs.After some time I explode and in my own words"destroy him".
I'm sober now.for some time.All I wish to have is peace and nobody bugg me,please.I understand that maybe if I learn how to help him or bite my tongue,things will be better.It is just hard when somebody makes you their punching bag.He told me that when he feels overwhelmed I need to help him,same like when he helps me with my relapse.
A lots of time i try to calm him down or ignore it,but there is the point,when i just call him names,ridicule his behavior..If he knows how stressful he gets before trip,why he start packing on the last minute?...etc.etc.Just venting.
Because me and my "better half" had fight.
Me and him are total opposites.We love each other,but his ocd,homophobia and perfectionism killing me.Who cares that the dog is eating bone on the carpet?..we own a vacuum.
I tend to ignore him when he s blabbing and complaining about every little bs.After some time I explode and in my own words"destroy him".
I'm sober now.for some time.All I wish to have is peace and nobody bugg me,please.I understand that maybe if I learn how to help him or bite my tongue,things will be better.It is just hard when somebody makes you their punching bag.He told me that when he feels overwhelmed I need to help him,same like when he helps me with my relapse.
A lots of time i try to calm him down or ignore it,but there is the point,when i just call him names,ridicule his behavior..If he knows how stressful he gets before trip,why he start packing on the last minute?...etc.etc.Just venting.
At least your sober! That's a plus! :)
Oh and I hope you don't mean "punching bag" in a literal sense, I'm assuming you mean that figuratively, if not.....get out of the relationship.
Nice new profile pic by the way. :)
It can be soooo hard putting up with differences in personalities. I too deal with this BS at work. I have been so fed up lately that i want to scream! Luckily i live alone, but just dealing with little people problems and the same ol', same ol' , all the time just on the phone with family! Eeehhhh
The serenity prayer gets repeated all day long for me lately. I say it over and over. Sometimes a if i can lay down and regroup it does help me to cope better. You are human and this is part of life.
Thanks for coming on and posting and letting us know how you are and what's up.
Good Luck, it will get better! :)
Pam
Yea.couple counseling sound great,because 2 people with issues never talk it out.it is blame game.Have good one.
Serenity prayer is great help.also ears plugs.I need to buy some good ones.
Thanks guys
You sound better!
Hope it's beautiful there too. It is here in Cincy :)
Later