Alcoholism Support Group
Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.
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Maybe 4mytasha you were only physically addicted and NOT suffering from a disease.
I know many people who are alcoholics who stopped drinking without physical withdrawal. The point is that they are still alcoholics even though they werent physically addicted.
There is no JUST addicted, physical addiction to anything is a serious problem. It just isnt the exact same thing as alcoholism, in my experience.
The way I see my alcoholism is that it had a great side effect in the early days in that it allowed me to escape the world. However that is not why I drank the way I did, that was because I was an alcoholic. Long after it stopped working as an escape mechanism I still couldnt stop.
I am not here to say whether anyone is an alcoholic or not. However if I had only helped people on the basis that they were addicted to alcohol I would have turned my back on a lot of alcoholics.
In the late 70s, Henri Begleiter and B. Porjesz at the State University of NY in Brooklyn attached electrodes to detect a brain wave, designated P300, to the scalps of 25 boys aged 7-13 who were sons of alcoholic fathers, with a control group of 25 boys who had no family history of drug or alcohol addiction. The reasoning behind the experiment was that alcoholics and only alcoholics emit low frequencies of this particular brain wave. However, none of the boys in either group had themselves ever used alcohol or drugs, and the researchers conducting the tests were "blind" to the family history of each boy.
The goal was to explore electrophysiological "markers" to identify children at risk. They found that in response to visual stimuli, the sons of alcoholic fathers had a measurably lower amplitude of P300 brain waves. However, they cautioned that the results were not conclusive as a diagnostic predictor of later addictive behavior. Even so, the finding suggests that addiction is much more of a medical and genetic mystery than either the moralists or the self-help gurus can confidently address with didactic or formulaic solutions.
(But I'M not saying I was addicted or an alcoholic.)
My X, who was told IS an alcoholic, who drinks everyday, was suggested he would need to go into rehab.
Whether either of us are alcohlics or JUST addicted really makes no difference, IMO.
But, I'm outta here.
No point in fighting who is or who isn't as long as the person realizes there's a problem and does something about it is all that matters.
For me, alcoholism doesn't run in my family. However, my grandfather was a "rageaholic" and my mom is an overeater and goes to OA. I got alcoholism. That's why I think it's some kind of gene that passes on "addictive behavior" that obviously won't manifest into alcoholism if you never pick up a drink to begin with but may manifest into other addictions - food, gambling, etc.
Now, my mom got diabetes later in life, so did my sister - both as a result as overeating = change in body = disease. Cancer caused by smoking is the same thing, so why do I know so many alcoholics who duck into meetings because they don't want work or anyone else to know, when I don't know of anyone diagnosed with other diseases ducking into hospitals for treatment? Yeah, bottom line is I'm grateful to be sober, just pissed at the stigma attatched.
The point is if you have a drinking problem then deal with it and quit making excuses.
To clarify this is not directed at any one in paticular and is not saying you aren't dealing with it.
If you are dying because you are bleeding to death from a huge gash does it really matter whether the glass was brown, green, clear?
All I 100% do know is that it is a sickness that will fuck you 4-way; family, spirit, mentally, & physically.
Physically poses a question with me to. I remained in the gym, and took good care of myself. However my hangovers were horrific and kept me in bed the whole next day. Most times I wouldn't drink for a few days.
Binge drinking type.