Alcoholism Support Group
Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.
AA uses the term Higher Power, Celebrate Recovery refers to God and Christ.
At least that's my take on it. But I haven't used either.
In these institutions there are formal and official procedures for inducting, identifying, regulating and terminating members. In such organizations, if someone misrepresents the doctrines, mission statement or operational policies of the organization as a whole, such a person can be reprimanded, silenced or even expelled.
This is not the case at all with Alcoholics Anonymous, and it can be very disconcerting for both newcomers and impartial observers alike. There is no Board of Admissions, and there are no background investigations, physical or psychiatric exams, no aptitude, competence or literacy tests, no formal course of study or training nor creed to attest to, pledges of allegiance or oaths of honor required for entry or subscription renewal reminders for extended membership. There's no chain of command, no grand pooh-bah, no faculty, campus police or MP's, and no financial records locked in a safe somewhere that the rank-and-file aren't allowed to see. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking, and there are no attendance records, performance evaluations or periodic peer reviews required for renewal.
Perhaps the most significant difference of all is that no one in AA, individually or collectively, has the authority to throw anybody else out. No mucky-muck from the central office in New York can walk into a local group, pull rank and start bossing people around. If there is or has ever been a durable organization where that sort of anarchy is actually spelled out in its articles of incorporation, I've sure as heck never heard of it.
That's not to say that mini-hierarchies and authoritarian cliques complemented with their own self-serving dogmas & doctrines don't spring up on websites, in local groups and in the parking lots-- I've seen quite a few in my time. But thanks to our Traditions, these never take hold in the wider fellowship because there are simply no administrative offices, teaching accreditation curricula or positions of authority available in AA's wider, overall structure. I
n other words, if you don't like the way things are done in one group, try another. But outside of those individual groups there are no regional, state or national tribunals for in-house redress of grievances and the dispensation of justice.
Those who require the protective mantle of an official creed, a supervisory chain of command and a higher court of appeals are simply out of luck here. Some may see that as a structural weakness, but many of us say it's quite possibly our greatest source of vitality because it forces us to get along with other people as equals and without the artificial protection afforded by institutional role-playing.
I stress that because the ability to just let other people be themselves in a democratic give-and-take setting needed to survive in AA is a painfully learned social skill for most of us. We can piss and moan and tattle our tales, but there's nobody up in the executive suite who will listen or give a hoot. The bottom line is that those who can't stand the heat generated by the degree of social friction that automatically ensues in such a power vacuum are probably better off staying out of the kitchen.
I can tell you from my very fast glance at their website that I couldn't use their program.
AA provides structure and guidance without a religious basis...or bias. I don't do well with in hightly organized forums. :)
No formal structure, no bosses, no list of rules and no fees...AA is a organisation that should never succeed but yet it continues to deliver the seemingly impossible.
Good post Nemorino.
Actually, I was a drunken Catholic fucking asshole, but that's another story. So you can call me an atheist, an agnostic, an atheist, a heretic, a backslider, an apostate, a lost soul, a damned sinner, a good for nothing ne'er-do-well lush or any other label that seems appropriate. But please, puleeze-- don't anyone ever call me a Protestant:)
My comment on 25 years is not a pride thing, seing as how I'm still an alcoholic and could take a drink just as quickly as any other alcoholic. It was a way of qualifying my answer. I have learned a lot from the "passing parade" which I could only observe over time.
That being said, I'm glad to have had this opportunity to exchange ideas here--it's a great way of learning how to interact with others. That's the last time I try to post on a forum while I'm in a hurry to get to work!
Europagrl: Please don't let our bantering discourage you from seeking help. We went to any lengths to take a drink so we must go to any lengths to live a sober life. As long as you keep seeking, you'll find the help you're looking for.