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While we all like to think or believe that "we" are the ones who create our own thoughts, it just might not be that way. Okay, so then what?
If thoughts just arise on their own, then who or what determines those thoughts?
It may be that there is One Source that everything arises from and falls back in to. That One Source is often considered by many to be God.
If God determines all our thoughts, and (by default) all our actions, then God runs the show and we are just along for the ride.
Our egos will try relentlessly to convince us that "I" am the one in control, that "I" am the one who must surrender, that "I" am the determinant of my destiny, etc....
So when people say that nothing happens in God's world by mistake, no matter how our mind's label or judge the situation, they may unknowingly be pointing to the possibility that each event in this world (good or bad) is a gradual progression towards God or Being itself.
God is making things happen so that we all eventually find him.
I am stepping out here and I hope ya'll realize that this is based in my personal beliefs and observations. If this upsets anyone then don't read it, blow it off, or file it away for the future. This is what carried me through Steps 6&7.
The Enemy, call it Satan, the disease, or the dark side of the force what ever you want is pissed looking for ways to distract me from my life purpose... helping others. I know there is a war waging in my mind and I am constantly having to check myself... my motives... in everything I do.
This Enemy uses my very environment, it is what one BOOK calls "the Prince of the power of the air" (the correct translation of the word air IS environment). It uses anything to keep me from my focus.
The enemies greatest tool is fear. It wants us to be distracted, fearful, feeling hopeless. It feeds those things and in turn becomes stronger, virtually a full circle, feeding my fear and feeding off that same fear. It walks the earth as a roaring lion seeking whom it may devour. I hear the roar and I become fearful... the roar so loud I cannot hear that still soft voice telling me it's OK.
Through the years I trained myself to believe those lies, to own them and to believe that nothing could ever be better in my life. I believed my past was still my present and projected long dead faces on to those standing before me. I pushed them away even as they were trying to show me their love.
I had to learn that there was a new TRUTH in my life. That for whatever reason GOD saw me not as dirt but as HIS child. Worthy of forgivness and HIS trust. For me to continue to see a piece of trash as I look in the mirror is to look HIM in the eye and call HIM LIAR.
TODAY I KNOW WHO THE LIAR IS and I have turned a deaf ear to him. Today I strive to hear that STILL SOFT VOICE and though I fail at times I know HE will not forsake HIS children.
There is more to this but then there always is.
God's world is not Man's world. Man lives in God's world IF he chooses to.
God gave Man free will. We abuse this gift all of the time...
But to me intermingling of government and church money and authority is more the Constitutional issue than a few symbols such as crosses. However, what you see as a respect for God happy, many see as christianity being the government's sanctioned religion.
Tricky stuff. As far as the "Patriot Act" mycool I'm with you 100%. It's called reverse labeling .
yes, yes, I agree
God created this world, therefore it is His ultimately. I absolutely believe that things happen in the world all the time that was never what God planned. These things are mistakes because I do not believe that God ever planned for human suffering, or acts of terrorism. Surely no one here believes that 9/11 was somehow part of the plan that God had for each individual that lost their life on that day??
That was never meant to be and PLEASE do not tell me that it was the work of Satan! That allows us to blame someone or something else for the twisted thinking and actions of misguided young men.
Find acceptance of the event through watching the thoughts your mind puts out, and settle into that part of you which watches the mind.
Who says there is a will? The mind does.
In a nutshell. if there is a force that is good then there must be one that is bad. These forces are constantly offering possibilities. It's up to the individual to choose. The good side offers reward that comes after selfless patience and toil that is of benefit to all around. The bad offers selfish instant gratification that benefits no one but that self centered soul. Again all about choices.
did 9/11 happen because of a faith or was it because of the bunch of virgins they were going to get to play with. Who knows. I only know that I know that I know what works for me works for me. I have proof that I am right BUT it is MY proof. To others it''s coincidence.
Whatever floats your boat. Still all about choices.
I'm still wrapping my head around my newfound christianity. I don't always understand it, and I'm exploring my belief more by sharing it with others who have similar beliefs. I think I do believe nothing happens by mistake. Whether it be God's will, or our will giving in to temptation and making choices, they are not mistakes, but consequences of our choices, either Gods, or our own. Ask me in another month, and I might feel differently, but today, if we all lived by Gods will, maybe there wouldn't be all this destruction. :}
Great post Nicky
Anyhow-- I do believe--that spirit and power of God is available at any given time, in any situation. Our CHOICES too often determine a less than godly outcome.
The human mind is quite limited in its perspective and understanding of the reality of the world. I've read that to be able to truly understand God's plan, one would have to see how everything that is taking place at this moment in time is connected to all things that have happened and are the stimulus for all things to come. But even this would still be limited in perspective.