Alcoholism Support Group

Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.

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Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I am getting divorced. Wife bragged to me about how great her new lover is and asked for the divorce. Even has an engagement ring!

How can I stay calm and civil when I really want to kill someone or take a drink! I ran 3 miles tonight and I feel a little better.
blueviolet725
blueviolet725
The best thing to do is be the eye of the storm, not swirling around in it. Why, if she is divorcing you, would you behaving these conversations with her anyway? You are no longer obligated to listen. I agree, running is good. And success is the best revenge, so put your anger to positive use, like your buisness.
and nobody expects that divorce wouldn't make you feel crazy...even the "best" ones have their moments. I agree with drafter.
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You both are in need of PROFESSIONAL marriage counseling. In all honesty any of our advise is worth exactly what you are paying us!!!!!!!

If not that .....then a serious sit down and write down the main gripes, what you would like from the other person and what you feel you can contribute to the marriage, then exchange your lists and discuss.