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hypersexuality after stopping drinking

sumitlal
sumitlal
I am going through a phase where my sexual desire seems to have hit the roof. I want to have multiple partners and wild sex... all the things I missed out as a drunk.
I am 32, more than a year sober, and have a steady GF. Could it be because my GF is 17 yrs elder to me, suddenly I have realized that shes touching 50 while I am still young?
CoogeeMum
CoogeeMum
AAhhh the joys of having a pastime with the opposite sex.
deleted_user
deleted_user
many older women have a stronger and higher sex drive - you oughta check your partner out - maybe you'd be surprised if you were more into being intimate instead of busting a nut in an orgy you'd find more sexual pleasure than you realize -

Grass ain't always greener on the other side of the fence, even it it's a newly sodded yard - watch what you wish for it may come back to haunt you.
sumitlal
sumitlal
I think there might be a connection - taking yoga classes with 25 flexible women and doing aerobics with so many fit women! throws my libido of the roof. And mostly I am the only guy in the classes!
onetoomany
onetoomany
Have you lost attraction or interest in your GF?

Sometimes when we are drinking we think we know what we feel, and maybe at that time you truly thought you loved her, but now that you are sober you realize your feelings weren't real?

I am just throwing this out there.
mayday101
mayday101
I am finding this all very amusing!
Sumitlal I just looked on your profile and it says you are single did you and your girlfriend break up? Or are you trying to lure in some unsuspecting ladyfolk?
sumitlal
sumitlal
'mayday101
I am finding this all very amusing!
Sumitlal I just looked on your profile and it says you are single did you and your girlfriend break up? Or are you trying to lure in some unsuspecting ladyfolk? '

Single in the sense not married. Not trying to lure any ladies, anyways I am in India!
This discussion is completely going off topic, so lets end it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I do yoga - trying very badly to - , at home, if I went to a class with 25 limber women my wife would cut off my horniness with a dull knife.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Get a big tube of KY and a good supply of kleenex and be safe
Lostintheiris
Lostintheiris
I have only been 5 weeks and one day sober but my sexual drive has been crazy for the past week. Ive read that alot of people go through this after quitting it has alot to do with your hormones balancing out. You have been numb for so long and now your body is feeling things. Im hypersensitive to alot of things right now too. I dont think you missed out on things or your girlfriends age think its more that your stuff was numb/ asleep for so long and now its waking up.