thanks wetpete

I mostly have stress incontinence during the day, but my husband wets the bed. Or, I should say, wets his diapers. It's basically a non-issue in our life except when we are traveling, then he gets paranoid about people finding out and what the hotel maids will think. I usually will wear adult pull-ups on trips, rather than pads, because they are obviously female, so that if anyone notices his diapers, they will think they are mine. It's silly, but makes him feel better.

I still wet the bed every night

St50 same here always wet mine too

Hi Joanne. I'm 30 and still a bedwetter. Not every night by any means, but I do still have the problem. Always happy to chat if you want.

I wet the bed most nights. I grew up a chronic nightly wette and wasn't reliably dry until my 20's I've been wetting the bed again for over 7 years.

I wet the bed every night.

I still wet the bed more or less every night.

Hi st50 thanks for your reply

Although I wet my bed off and on as child and through my teenage years, it was as an adult after a neck injury that it really became a problem and I had to start wearing protection. I use the TENA Slip Active Fit Maxi all-in-one adult nappy style incontinence pads. Keeping it secret has been difficult but the embarrassment of wearing nappies is nothing compared to the embarrassment of a wet bed if I am staying away so I have accepted that wearing protection is less embarrassing and I have told a small number of close friends. I think the most difficult was telling my now wife when I first met her! I have used the TENA Slip products for over 30 years now as I have found them to be the best. Unfortunately, other spinal problems and operations mean that I have to wear protection 24/7 as I have no feeling that I am wetting. For me, wearing adult nappies is the only way I can manage my incontinence successfully. The biggest difference that wearing nappies made for me was giving me back my confidence to go out. Now they are just my normal underwear. I carry a small bag with a changing kit in it as I will typically go through 2 or 3 during the day. I do sometime have leaks – wetting heavily if I am sleeping on my side and when driving long distances and not realising how wet my nappy is are typical situations. Even now only a handful of friends know and the products are so good these days that I don’t think anyone ever notices that I am wearing a nappy. In the past I used to get anxious when I was NOT wearing a nappy in case I wet but was also a bit anxious about exacerbating the problem and relying on my nappy rather than trying to go to the loo regularly. Now it is just an everyday part of my life and I am able to get on with it. I wish you well.