Hi. Sorry to hear that you are so stressed. I know that adhd sucks. My 15 year old has add/adhd/odd. It sucks for him and it sucks for his parents. But please try to remember that your dad didn't give you adhd on purpose. It was not intentional. I am sure your dad loves you and that he would do anything to remove your adhd and your stress. You know, through medication, and through learning some coping skills, and through just getting older, you can make it....really! I don't know how old you are, but our son, who I mentioned above is improving with each year. I know that he will never completely outgrow adhd, but as you grow older, alot of your hormonal stuff stabilizes. That physical change, along with just learning how to cope, greatly improves your life. Please hang in there...you can make it, and things will get better!!

I agree it sucks ...
....but 'that that is, is' and there are two things we can do: 1)Give up and quit life because its unfair or 2)go with what we get because that is who we are and we need to make the best out of it

ps.... I chose #2 and I'm glad for that

re-arrange you negative energy into posative , a hint keep reinventing yourself it works..:)

I am less fluffy than the others.

Get over blaming your dad.
He did not do anything that gave yuo this thing.

It is something tha tjust happens, accept it, embrace it and move on.

When I do something out of the normal that people look at me for strangely I say "It's okay I have a disorder and a certificate to prove it"
helps me cope with those looks and in fact sums up my attitude, there are a hell of alot worse things out there to have, try having no hands for a day.

we you shouldn't hate ADHD because if you
think about it basicaly it's what makes
you unique

Yes, having ADD/ADHD stinks.......
so does having Leukemia, heart conditions, diabetes.......ANYTHING that upsets the normal living condition STINKS......

Since being diagnosed with ADHD, have leared that I have a cousin who has it. Also, have a niece.
So, there has to be a genetic predisposition for it......

Honey, your father did not pass this trait to you deliberately. It's just one of those things.

Pointing the finger to him will not help you,though......

Life is a struggle, and this is a struggle......at least you know what you have and you are online seeking support....

Are you feeling better now?????

i understand, i have days like that to were i could just smash a door or some thing, but im lucky my younger brother who was the only one in the family that some how knoew how to calm me down, he tought my partner an now they have moved but i have him to help me i also have a hobby, my car so i try to put my energy into that an driving through the hills alone with my music on, or just chilling with my fish that i found relax me to. if you need some one im here :)

To begin with...we're stuck with it and personally finding out what is hated about it can overturn the negative sasha5,
Be positive, i know it can get under your skin at times,
but really is anyone so awesome than yourself?
bet you have some great qualities,we are all gifted in a certain way,dont hate it explore your talent.
Ava great day.

Good advice dad of 2. Could you message me with some of the strategies that your son is learning? I would appreciate it.