ADHD / ADD Support Group
Attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and attention deficit disorder (ADD) are more common than you might think. It is a syndrome that exhibits symptoms such as hyperactivity, forgetfulness, mood shifts, poor impulse control, and distractibility. Join others who suffer from these conditions and share your experiences.
There IS a book that has been recommended to me by my doctors--'Driven to Distraction' - it supposedly helps not only the person having it but also those who live with persons with ADD/ADHD.....
I have it -- havne't read it yet, though I do have a section that my therapists had copied for me without her knowing I had bought the book.....
The info just in that section alone really nailed some key characteristics of the ADD/ADHD personality.
By the way, there are WAY many things worse than ADD/ADHD -- far worse things.
With the right partner/job, etc., having someone with ADD/ADHD can be one of the Best combinations any relationship could hope to have.
Another good book is "You mean I am not lazy, stupid or crazy? - Self help book for adults with ADD", but this might be better for your husband.