Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
I know I have urges. Let me tell you haha. But since I'm comprehending obediance to God this whole purity thing is MILES better! I'm actually enjoying it! Until it came to last night with my boyfriend who was so excited to see me haha.
Anyway we went further than intended (which doesn't have to be far when deciding on abstienence) because we've made our boundaries clear!
I could have said no, infact I felt it wouldn't have been difficult and yet my behaviour rebelled.
I feel a lot of self disappointment because this time it was different, I was enjoying and seeing that PURITY CAN WORK!.
So yeah.. everyone out there who is in the same boat as I am. Please do say no. Do not awaken love until it so desires, Now I feel like the sexual being within me has awakened and I have to set it back to sleep so to speak. Making it only more difficult for myself all over again.
Next time I can and will say no.
Any stories out there about 'sending sexuality back to rest? and how you achieved it long term?'
Anyway we went further than intended (which doesn't have to be far when deciding on abstienence) because we've made our boundaries clear!
I could have said no, infact I felt it wouldn't have been difficult and yet my behaviour rebelled.
I feel a lot of self disappointment because this time it was different, I was enjoying and seeing that PURITY CAN WORK!.
So yeah.. everyone out there who is in the same boat as I am. Please do say no. Do not awaken love until it so desires, Now I feel like the sexual being within me has awakened and I have to set it back to sleep so to speak. Making it only more difficult for myself all over again.
Next time I can and will say no.
Any stories out there about 'sending sexuality back to rest? and how you achieved it long term?'
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Sorry to hear about your slip. Please don't beat yourself up to badly, you're only human. I for one couldn't tell you how to regain your purity. Obvious, first forgive yourself, and not get caught off guard again to rebuilt your sense of purity once again, one day at a time.
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