How should one feel pride as a man, in this society, the whole reason guys have sex is cause its harder for us to get it so they thrive to have it as much as possible, where as for women its something they should not give away but treasure. I dont understand what to feel when i let every girl go because i dint sleep with, i lose so much self confidence, i always think of the "what could have been if i just wasn't a decent guy". Not sure what to say anymore. Would i even be thinking like this if i did not have this value, of just holding on for the right person. Seems like there is no others like me out there anymore. I dont need a person to be with to be happy, but down the line i do want to have kids, what if the time comes where i meet the right one and were incapable of having kids, time is wasted. I thought there would be more to being a man in today society instead of how many women you would be able to subdue. But how many other values must be overlooked or passed on because of this short event of pleasure. I am not Doubting my stand on who I am, but just doubting societies stand on not accepting this value anymore, is it even worth holding on to in the first place? I might be going crazy anyway now, i dont care. I always thought that, Being abstinent is the same as a small flower in a field of grass, will the flowers species survive maybe, and maybe it does not, but the grass is guaranteed to live on.