Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
Now, what I've learned from sex books is that the wedding night really should be used to recover from the wedding - there'll be alot of fatigue - no need to feel any pressure to consummate the marriage on the wedding night, or even the night after. Allow yourselves to get back to full energy levels, and when you're both ripe (as the book says) then.... It takes 5 years to learn sex with a helpful partner so there's absolutely no rush. If there's one thing that cannot be stressed enough it's communication...you need to be able to spell things out unabashedly. You and your new hubby will be your own best sexologists if you can communicate well about likes, dislikes and eventually even fantasies etc.
May I wish you every bliss conceivable in your married life.