It seems that sex is a huge deal, in life, relationships, everything. I know that i am young, but isnt my sexual prime gonna pass me by if i dont just spread my seed like im supposed to. i know i am not like this i was born to be different, and maybe better than most at this. But i still have problems accepting that this feeling of being abstinent is right for me anymore, because even i if i dont ever get married, i will have wasted all this time waiting for the right person to come along, and i have already passed up a lot of nice partners that i wanted to be with but they dint want to be with me cause of the sex part(Im sorry, but having me fuck you isn't in the part of me getting to know you part of relationship) I feel so ashamed to be a man in this society because of my morals and i guess they're values. Still it sucks being young and watching all your friends having fun, while all i can do is get drunk but i mean i am getting my career set up for the long run if there is one, and i like having money in my pocket to buy shit lol that is one thing my friends in relationships cant say. But maybe it isn't so bad for me to wait, after everyone has had fun they always come to me with their relationship problems, and i learn from those problems, instead of the mistakes i would make. So what i am asking is, should i just drop my values or join in on the fun, because i think that i don't need to join if i can learn from others mistakes, and that makes me feel like a parasite lol. Does this sound incorrect in some ways, i have no problem getting women, i know this, it just makes me pissed of sometimes, that what they want is a sexually strong you can say guy for a long term relationship, and not a virgin husband.