Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
Weak and Stupid. my confessions
I would like to remain abstinent but I am not a Christian and I have a boyfriend who lately I've been spending so much time with that I know that it is too much. But I can never say no for some reason. I am falling for him. And he is falling for me. But he is so attached and he doesn't have a lot of distractions. He has a lot of friends that call a lot but other than that just school. He does not do well in school. I told him to study more but he will not do it. He pays for most things and says he worries about money and I encourage him to get a part-time job but he just works for his father occasionally. The worst thing- my stupidest confession, is lately I feel like if I have sex with him he will know that I love him and then I can get him to leave me alone for a while. I have a hard time breaking up with people, especially someone that seems to have potential. He did just get back from the army three months ago could be why he does not have a job. I am in need of some tough love here! I can not gaurantee that I will accomplish the advice but I will try.
I would like to remain abstinent but I am not a Christian and I have a boyfriend who lately I've been spending so much time with that I know that it is too much. But I can never say no for some reason. I am falling for him. And he is falling for me. But he is so attached and he doesn't have a lot of distractions. He has a lot of friends that call a lot but other than that just school. He does not do well in school. I told him to study more but he will not do it. He pays for most things and says he worries about money and I encourage him to get a part-time job but he just works for his father occasionally. The worst thing- my stupidest confession, is lately I feel like if I have sex with him he will know that I love him and then I can get him to leave me alone for a while. I have a hard time breaking up with people, especially someone that seems to have potential. He did just get back from the army three months ago could be why he does not have a job. I am in need of some tough love here! I can not gaurantee that I will accomplish the advice but I will try.
Three months is enough time to get a job. If there are things that concern you now they will drive you crazy later!! Keep that in mind. He may not be the one. If you are not sure that in it's self says something!! BE STRONG!