Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
This is really hard for me to write because i feel weird about the situation. I'm 26 year old male and i just got into a relationship with my gf. She is the first girl ive ever dated. So we have been dating for 3 months and she been wanting to have sex and she knew i was a virgin. So the other night we finally did it and right after i had a mix of emotions. I was scar,ed, nervous and all kinds of thoughts. I didnt know what to expect with sex and now im feeling like is there something wrong with me. Now im questioning my sexuality cause it should be a normal thing and i just dont know what to feel. She asked me how was it and i didnt no what to say. Please dont make jokes about me i just need some advice
Of course you were nervous. It was your first time. So the question is, are you physically and emotionally attracted to her?
You can question your sexuality if you are not physically attracted to women and you are to men. Either way, it's okay. Just breathe.
My only advice to you is to try and be as open and honest with her as you can. She deserves to know that this isn't an easy time for you right now and you are trying to figure things out. It's going to be okay.
Everything you are feel is natural.
It's great that you waited :-)