Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
If you're uncomfortable being with someone for the way that they dress, that's one thing, but don't make any determination about actions or character based on it.
I'm guilty of stereotyping women based on dress. Not fair, I realize but the majority of fashions are completely derived from slut-wear.
I agree with Eliana, as I have much the same situation. The clothes I wear that are close to my body and lower cut are because I want to look good, and it nurtures the playful side of my personality.
In the long run, you can just ask a person. I feel that in today's world we don't ask these questions enough. There isn't anything wrong with asking someone if they're a Christian, or any other religion, and after knowing them, there isn't anything wrong with asking if they're celibate. It's all in HOW you ask.
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My personal experience is that when I don't dress provacative people think I am a virgin (go figure). When I wear a low cut dress, men stare at my chest and want to use me...so take whatever you can out of this.