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- hi who was ther for them when they were small and fell over WE WERE.who was there for them when they had there heart broken for the fist time WE WERE. who looked after them when they were ill WE DID.who helped them with money when they were older WE...
- I had a good think after reading a section on how to end estrangment , I did all that was there i phoned her at work she said she was to busy to talk to me, I have sent cards and letter. she has never replyed and after 2 years in feb i wrote and...
- hi thought i would share this with you. I have not cryed for a few month now, i am looking at thing diffrently . I was the one that walked away as i had had it with abuse. I tell my self i have devorced my daughter,if she can back i would never...
- i have been away for a few days to have a rest, i have done a lot of thinking and looking back, i see know that my daughter started to change a few weeks after she met her other self (partner) her vitists and call went from daily to 2 weeks when i...
- hi thought i would share some wisdom i was brought up with.as most of you will see i have trouble spelling i was learnt ita at school this system was later abolished!it was a trial,so i cant spell vwry well.when i went to the higher scool a teacher...
- i had a visit out of the blue from my daughters freind only one she has left.i think thats due to the fact they only talk a couple of times a year,so the partners not started on her yet.she told me my daughter gave her a new phone number and asked...
- i was listning to abba today,the winner takes it all.how true thats been for me and my family,my daughters partner smirks at us when she see us.she must feel like shes got it all now,i wonder if my daughter was ill if anyone would let us know,they...
- when i was going through hell with my daughters partner,i asked her why she hated my,her reply was i am an evil mother,she then went on to trow things in my face that happend in my life years ago,ex hubby ect i relised my daughter had been feeding...
- glade you have found us and we look forward to getting to know you
- we are glad you have found us we hope this site will help you has it has us debbie xx
- i have been thinking today of all the thing i used to do for my daughter,I think i was far to soft with her,I would take her to work and collect her.cook hwe dinner help her with her house work and decorating.We gave her £25,OOO for her flat.I...
- I have sent birthday cards and gifts as well as christmass my daughter keeps them but nevers sends a thanks.I am not sure weather to send them this year or not.I was not going to but i have read its best to send cards.have any of you done this and...
- hi welcome i am so sorry you are felling the pain of estrangment, I am so glad you have found us.
- i was reading about abusive controling relationships.it said keep tryind to make contact,as my daughter has been isolated from family and freinds,i told my daughter by letter in feb,i would not wright her anymoor but the door was open for her.i cant...
- i was wondering how many of us in our childs life were seen by them to be good mums.then all changes they get thing in there heads and we become the bad guys.were do these things come from.Do they look at us as perfect,only to find out we are not...