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- I have always wanted a ranch home, and for the past 6 years, have fantasized about buying one in an area where the taxes aren't insane. Well, by pure luck (and having a realtor in the family) I will probably be closing on my dream home soon. At...
- I recently attended my neices wedding. I have declined prior family functions, but since my neice has tried to help since the estrangement started, I had to attend.My ed and her enablers were there. When I first went to say hi, they all ignored me....
- My therapist suggested I contact my daughter and let her know how I felt. Despite overwhelmig evidence, she chose to, as usual, lie her ass off and play the victim. Even though I expected it I cried for the next two days. On the third day, something...
- I mentioned to my therapist that I received an invitation to my nephews son 3rd birthday party. Since my ed and her toxic enablers will be there, I told him that I really didnt want to go and watch my ed mostly ignore me and her toxic enablers...
- When my late husband was alive, he never put up with any of the enablers crap. If he and Jackie Gleason were in a yelling contest, my late husband would win hands down.My ed left in a whirl of lies about two and half yrs ago. A few times since then,...
- My sil called me because they messed up the gift list at my neices wedding shower. I am very angry at this woman because she never offered any help. Not even to see how i was or to just let me vent. the only time she did contact me was when she was...
- Every post holiday, I am always very angry the day after. Mothers day is the worst of all. I was walking to my desk at work and saw a coworkwer happily chatting with someone and waved at me. Seeing her happiness made me feel even more angry, until i...
- I had my first therapy session last night. Is it normal to cry afterwards and feel bummy the next day? I have had my own meltdowns to achieve this and it was for free. To have no regrets, i will give it a few more months to see if it helps.
- I saw my ed and her toxic enablers at my nieces bridal shower. The toxic s initially ignored me, but they eventually had to acknowledge my existence because it wouldn't look good in front of others to ignore me when talking to them. I was...
- I was talking with an acquantence who was telling me about her shopping trip with her adult dtr and her son's upcoming interview for an internship at a law firm. The pain that always follows these types of conversations, as usual, was instant....
- Yesterday my ed texted me because she wanted her birth certificate so she can get a passport. Other than wanting something, I am ignored. Up until this point I played their game by their rules hoping that if i dont rock the boat, she will be nice to...
- My ed just texted me asking for her birth certificate for a passport. No hi, how are you, zip. when i see her for family events she ignores me. The only time I hear from her is on my birthday-and then the conversation is so phony is is pathetic or...
- My husband suggested getting a cat. He thinks that something lovable would help. I have never had one, just a dog. He says unlike dogs, they are low mainenance and could be left alone if we went away on vacation. I know some cats could be nasty. Are...
- for the past few weeks I have been really anxious. I thought that it was because I had just returned to work after a two month disability. At first I thought it was anxiety in socializing with other people, because for the past year and a half I...
- Some of you have mentioned no contact, but even though I heard the words, I wasn't ready until this happened.Two months ago I had life saving surgery. The head enabler, my toxic mil (from hell) called a week after my surgery to "see how I was". My...